This post goes out to all those on the asexual spectrum, the aromantics, the aro-aces, the grey-asexuals and the aegosexuals. Who’s tired of being told this is something you will grow out of or that you just need to meet the right person? If you rather choose cake over sex, step right in, these memes completely nail it!
1. I just wanna vibe and eat garlic bread at 4am, why you gotta rain on my party??
2. I am both these images and I had no idea we had so many flags
3. Most people assume that asexuals are sex repulsed that you can’t have kids or get married without sex involved, but that’s not always the case. Some asexuals want kids and marraige but not the sex part.
4. The mission has been bequeathed upon my younger brother.
5. If they have a pulse and are nice that’s enough for me
6. I may not struggle with lust, but the other 6 deadly sins, fuggedaboutit.
7. Person who also is super affectionate and also doesn’t want to just have sex, where are you???
8. Those are my children and they are adorable!
9. What an odd alliance
10. My libido is very high. I just don’t want to do anything sexual with anyone.
11. Joke’s on them
12. Proud of it! I’m good at being one and anyone that calls me that as an insult and I couldn’t be more happier!
13. Imagine actually wanting to date your crush and wanting them to feel the same way
14.
Cute is highest level of attractiveness for me. I don’t think of words like “hot” or “sexy” when I think of people.
15. Out with you!
16. Where’s my asexual cupid??
17. My personal favorite was “So how long does this last for?
18. I literally suffer from all of these
19.
Sex is overrated, I prefer to eat cake.
20. I would say my sexuality is a bubbling mess of confusion and madness. Also a static noise flag would work well too
21. I relate to this on a spirtual level
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Just to be clear.
No one actually care. These people are simply looking to pretend like their life choice is important.. it is not
Kinda like your opinion?
Yes!!! Those who can’t sympathize are the most opinionated.
Exactly
Just because you lack the ability to empathize with others doesn’t mean that their identity doesn’t cause issues in their lives.
because you alone determine what is important for all humanity ??
Asexuality and sexuality is a programmed response.
Everyone has a choice.
Why would you need to explain?
If it’s programmed then it’s literally not a choice lol
Why is one’s sexuality anyone else’s business to comment upon? Much less critique? That is just really nosey, from anyone to literally anyone.
So, Jo Schmo, tell us then, how.old were you you you MADE THE CONSCIOUS CHOICE to be sexually/romantically interested in other people?
Yeah, that’s what I thought.
I wonder how many cases of asexuality are a response to sexual trauma. Having an endocrine system that just doesn’t produce horny hormones (which happens to a lot of women post-menopause and is probably, eventually, inevitable for everybody) is a very different kind of asexuality than having romantic feelings for someone and wanting intimacy but having a strong aversion to sex.
Was married for 5 years to a woman that cried asexual after the honeymoon on which we did not have sex. She tried to force it on me as well, which later involved a complete removal of physical touch (cuddling, hand holding, kissing, etc) because she thought “all I ever wanted was to have sex”…. with my wife. 🤔
Be up front about it and don’t marry someone who is not asexual, I guess. I don’t know how “real” any of it is, but it’s pretty humiliating after years of marriage to be told by your wife that you have never held any attraction to her, physical or otherwise, but that your marriage was just a way to legitimize her position in society.
It’s interesting how “victims” tend to pay the victimization forward.
As a Gray Asexual, i can tell you – not all Aces are like that. Gray asexuals want to have sex, we just don’t have the same ideas about it as everyone else – it’s just sex. To me, your wife sounds like she may just.. no longer want marriage and decided to find a roundabout way of saying as much instead of just being straightforward. I would recommend a divorce, maybe marry someone else. But, saying ‘dont marry someone who isn’t ace’ is also a bit rude. Just because your wife did that doesn’t mean we’re all like that – in fact, most of us can enter perfectly happy relationships with someone who isn’t Ace – it’s all about talking, and letting them know first which your wife did not do. Just because your wife didn’t do any of that, doesn’t mean you should lump us all together still, i hope you and her either divorce and find someone you can be happy with or that you can work things out. Still, i hope you realize her sudden realization is a major red flag – she likely isn’t even ace..
VEGA^n ahahaha tashi